Mambo...
Mara nyingi tukiongea katika Society kuhusu abuse - kinachokujia akilini hapo hapo ni abuse kwa wanawake from wanaume na abuse ya watoto from wazazi... But kuna abuse ambazo hazimulikwi kabisa- abuse to men.... Na kinachoumiza zaidi nikua apart from wanaume hawa kuwa baba, babu, uncle, cousin, kaka nk sisi wanawake wanaotuamini na kutuheshimu ndo wa kwanza kuwacheka na kuwasema kuwa wanastahili etc.., They are silent victims. Manake research zinaonyesha kuwa almost asilimia 45 ya wanaume walioko kwenye ndoa wanakuia abused na wake zao... Wengi wakiwa hawana pa kushtakia, hawana wa kumueleza na hawawezi to fight back manake watajisababishia tatizo kubwa zaidi..
Anyway swali leo ni kwako.. Ni sababu zipi hasa hupelekea wanawake (mke, girlfriend, mistress) kum abuse mpenzi wake?
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Barbara, baadhi ya wanaume wana maudhi yanayosababisha wanawake wengine washindwe kuwavumilia!!!!! Mfano; mnatafuta hela ya familia kwa taabu kwa ajili may be ya ada za watoto, kujenga nyumba, kuanzisha biashara. Fedha zikipatikana, mwanaume anachukua anaenda kunywa pombe, kuspend na wanawake wengine n.k. Unadhani kama mwanamke hatatumia busara nilazima atoe kichapo kwa huyo the so called mume.
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@Anonymous. Si mtu kama huyo unamuomba talaka tu?! Unapom-ABUSE unasuluhisha kitu gani (kwa kuongeza matatizo mengine)?
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Kum-ABUSE mtu ni hisia za ubabe tu, wala si za mtu mzima wala mtoto. Si za mwanaume wala mwanamke.
Lakini kiini chake ni kutompenda yule mtu. Mara nyingi utakuta kwamba pale mulipoingia ndoani yeye alikuwa ni mwenye uwezo zaidi yako, nawe ulikubali ndoa kwa kipengele cha "mwamvuli" kuliko vipengele vingine.
Sasa mambo yamegeuka. Labda yeye makubwa yamemkuta, namna ya kupata riziki ikatoweka WAKATI KWA UPANDE WAKO ULIIBUKA.
Ndipo sasa utamhesabia kila shilingi anayoi-SPEND juu ya pombe (IKIWA WAKATI ULE WEWE ULIPOMTEGEMEA, HUKUMUULIZA JE NATOSHELEZWA NA BIA NGAPI KWA SIKU).
Kwa wanaume, wazazi au wanawake wenye kujidai na kuwaABUSE wengine: TAFADHALI, USIJIONE MTU KWA KIUMBE MWENZIO... "Aliekupa wewe Ndiye huyohuyo aliemnyima yeye!"
Chunga sana!
Thanx Phiri, G.M.
ReplyDeleteWangu ulikuwa ni mtazamo tu....Na mfano nilioutoa is not applicable katika kila tukio la abuse kwa wababa!!!!Naomba nikukumbushe kuwa hata hiyo talaka ni process ambayo kama huna subira huwezi kuipata.....!Naomba turudi kwenye swali la Barbara-Je ni sababu gani/zipi hupelekea wanawake kuwa abuse wapenzi wao? Maoni yako tafadhali......
Elmmy
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